The Virtue of Temperance 

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A Fiction Prose Reflection, Book VII of XI

byChrisWhite – 2025

On the Series:
This series weaves together the eleven cardinal virtues: Hope, Charity, Prudence, Kindness, Faith, Love, Temperance, Fortitude, Wisdom, Patience, and Justice, through a synthesis of literary prose and poetry. Each reflection reaches into the marrow of human experience, drawing on both original verse and timeless lines from poets who gave voice to the sacred. This, the seventh installment turns to Temperance, that quiet, old-world virtue often mistaken for denial but rooted in wisdom deeper than want.

THERE’S A PORCH just off the two-lane road that runs through Maury County, shaded by a pecan tree and blessed with the kind of view that asks you to sit a spell. An old man named Caleb lives there, barefoot most days, slow-moving, kind-eyed. He keeps a rocking chair for company and a chipped plastic glass of sweet tea that never seems too full.

When you ask him what he believes in, he doesn’t get political or sentimental; he doesn’t say government or good luck. He says:

“Enough. I believe in enough.”

He tells it like a story. How his daddy used to bring home a single cold Coke on Sunday afternoons when they’d chopped wood all morning and sweat had run down their backs like rainwater. They’d split it, half and half, served in two slightly dirty jelly jars. Caleb says he’s never tasted anything sweeter, and he’s never needed more.

“Wasn’t about the Coke,” he says. “Was about the timing. The sharing. The knowing we’d earned it.”

He doesn’t care for big buffets or cars with too many buttons. Says the more you pile on your plate, the less you remember what the first bite tasted like.

Caleb’s not a philosopher. He’s not good at quoting scripture, Lord knows he’s tried, but when you bring up the world’s troubles, how people fight over more land, more power, more of everything, he just rocks back, his foot tapping the porch plank like a metronome for better thoughts.

“Folks forgot how to stop,” he says. “Forgot that joy don’t live in excess. It lives in peace.

He’s not wrong. You feel it when the sun sets and the world quiets. You feel it in the second spoonful of blackberry cobbler when you know deep down the first was enough. You feel it when the laughter starts to fade and you let it, instead of forcing one more joke. That’s temperance: the sacred art of not going too far.

“When first I saw the gleaming crest
Of temp’rance’s silver star,
I watch’d it, till its radiance blest
Illum’d the world afar.”

—John Pierpont

Pierpont called temperance a silver star, gleaming in a sky otherwise overcast by indulgence. And Charles Harpur, writing in the 1800s, gave it a prophet’s voice:

“A POWER is stirring—a broad light has shone
Amid the nation’s—in the wilderness
Of the world’s social horror and distress…”

—Charles Harpur

They wrote of temperance not as lack, but as light. Not as restraint, but as restoration.

And here, in Caleb’s story, you see it, not as sermon, but as life. You see it in the buttered biscuit done just right. You hear it in the cricket song between two sips of quiet. You feel it when someone pours you a drink and doesn’t ask what you’ve earned but offers only what you need.

So take what you need, not more, not less,
Savor the simple, let go of the rest.
For life ain’t a race to gather up more,
But a lesson in knowin’ what’s worth livin’ for.

—Chris White, The Measure of Enough

Temperance is not the absence of sweetness. It’s the trust that sweetness will return, if we don’t waste it. It’s what lets delight be delight, what makes the cup special, what keeps the feast sacred.

Caleb says we all get one good porch, if we’re lucky. One view worth watching, one cup worth sipping, one love worth tending. And that if we try to build too many porches, we won’t sit long enough on any of them to notice when the dogwoods bloom or the light changes to purple-orange across the gravel road.

Temperance is the virtue that teaches us how to cherish.
Not by hoarding, but by holding gently.
Not by consuming, but by receiving.

In a world so loud with wanting, it may be the virtue we need most.

So let us lean back in the chair. Let us stop reaching. Let us sip slowly from the plastic cup.

Let us remember the taste of enough.

Responses

  1. Rosaliene Bacchus Avatar

    Temperance, a much-needed virtue in our time of excessive consumption. Your engaging story makes it all clear how far we’ve strayed from the value of temperance in our lives.

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      Thank you Rosaliene.

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  2. Violet Lentz Avatar

    ‘In a world so loud with wanting…’ What a brilliant phrase. You have outdone yourself yet again.

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      Thank you Violet!

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  3. SanVercell Avatar

    I must say that this post blessed me today. Love this perspective on enough. A place we need to highlight for the next generation by showing them how to appreciate it today. Thank you for sharing. Kind of reminds me of “godliness with contentment is great gain.”

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      Such a thoughtful thing to say. I really appreciate your kind words.

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  4. mjeanpike Avatar

    This:

     the more you pile on your plate, the less you remember what the first bite tasted like.

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      I have my corny side.

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  5. Michael Williams Avatar

    a great write Chris – absolutely agree with this! Mike

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      Thank you Mike.

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  6. Warren R. Johnson Avatar

    I see but one barge going up or down the Ionian Sea each day. There are probably others, but one a day is enough to keep me grounded.

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      A metaphor in subtext! That’s impressive writing William. Love it.

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  7. pk world 🌎 Avatar

    Nice post 💜 ❤️ 💗

    Blessed and Happy saturday 🦋

    Grettings from 🌎🇪🇦🫂

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      Thank you!

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  8. David Avatar

    a beautiful piece of peaceful writing. I really feel your message

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      Thank you David

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  9. Maddie Cochere Avatar

    Beautifully written. Such a wonderful lot of advice here. Thank you, Chris!

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      Thank you Maddie.

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  10. ianscyberspace Avatar

    An excellent presentation.

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  11. stewedpears.com Avatar

    I loved this very much.

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      Thank you very much.

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  12. Carol A. Hand Avatar

    Absolutely beautiful, heartwarming, and profound. 💜

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      Thank you so much Carol.

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  13. Lisa -Southern Patches Avatar

    I have just discovered your blog, from having you follow mine, and love it. I have spent a lot of the morning reading your posts. I am enjoying them so much. My “porch”was at my parent’s house where I lived until I married at the age of 27. They had a big front porch with a large porch swing. My mama and I would sit for hours and talk and talk. We solved many of the world’s problems and maybe a few smaller ones. I love your posts. Makes me think of simpler times. Thank you for reminding me of this memory. I will carry it with me today.

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    1. Chris White Avatar

      Thank you Lisa. I always follow other southerners, especially “us Tennessean’s,” it keeps me centered while my mind is pursuing ideas afar.
      In light of one of your blogs, my wife has been traveling for work the past couple of weeks and asked me about the earthquake; I had no idea we had one. I must be just as preoccupied as she says I’ve been.
      Sorry about Patches. We have Walter, a four year old boxer. But before Walter was Loula, and we went through a similar process with the loss of her. I actually wrote a blog about Walter in case you’re wanting to shed a tear or two over Patches this morning.
      Thank you for the kind words and for sharing your own stories. I’m enjoying them equally.

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